my closest guy friend

it is when you've gotten over a person...saying it's finally over.
it is when you have accepted the reality... and know very well that you can never be...
it is when you no longer asking anything in return....it is when you are happy with the happiness that the person has....
it is when you're becoming happy each day...seeing him that way

it is when there's no more hurting...probably because you've got used to it...and the tears have run dry....

it is when you are just allowing the feelings to flow....every day...neither denying nor pretending
it is when enjoying every moment with the person
it is when being at your happiest when with the person
it is when being yourself...your worst and your best...
it is when you've grown not to get tired...but grown to accept things the way it is....
it is when hatred and bitterness are not the result of your being not compensated from what you're giving and capable of giving of....but rather, understanding and accepting....and loving the person inspite of
it is when letting go of the emotion...and not the person...because doing the latter would mean...taking off a part of your life....
it is when you have grown to love the person....the way he is right now...
and just a thought of him...makes you smile or even laugh...for no reason at all
and the thought of losing him in your life....makes you weep badly.
it is when the time has passed....but the feeling has not...
but you're just taking your time ...
it is when becoming contented to be the best of friends...
and chosing between any other things...
you know you will choose this way......
if that's the only consolation to keep him...
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it is when every day you thank God for giving you a friend like him...